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Divorce and Remarriage

 

What the Bible says about Divorce

Mark 10. 2-11

2  Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?"

3  "What did Moses command you?" he replied.

4  They said, "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away."

5  "It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law," Jesus replied.

6  "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 7  'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8  and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. 9  Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

 

Three propositions

 

1. God’s intention for every married couple is a permanent lifelong union

6  "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 7  'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8  and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. 9  Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."  Mark 10

 

2. The Bible permits divorce as a way of dealing with the effects of human sinfulness

4  They said, "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away."

5  "It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law," Jesus replied.

Mark 10

 

3. Divorce is always bad but sometimes right

Although God permits it in certain circumstances, it is never his intention (Malachi 2.16)

 

In what circumstances does the Bible permit divorce?

 

a)          Marital unfaithfulness

32  But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.  Matthew 5.32

 

But ‘marital unfaithfulness’ may be too restrictive a translation of the Greek word porneia. There is another Greek word moicheia which means adultery and this is not used. Porneia probably means sexual sin in general.

 

b)          Desertion

But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 1 Corinthians 7.15

 

 

What about remarriage?

 

To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11  But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.

1 Corinthians 7.10-11

 

10  When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this. He answered, "Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12  And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery."

Mark 10.10-12

 

These two passages taken together would appear to rule out remarriage altogether but there is another verse we need to consider which contains the so-called ‘Matthean exception’:

 

9  I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery." Matthew 19.9

 

The key to this whole question is what to make of this verse. There are two views:

The First View

Some Christians say that the teaching of the New Testament is so clear and conclusive that remarriage is wrong that it would be inconsistent to read the Matthean exception as permitting remarriage.  People in this group argue that it merely permits divorce, not remarriage as well.

 

Many in this group maintain that divorce does not end a marriage but merely creates a state akin to a legal separation. This group are often called indissolubilists because they believe that it is impossible to dissolve a marriage and that divorced people remain married to each other in the sight of God. This,  they argue, is why remarriage after divorce is always adulterous and explains why Jesus says in Mark 10. 11-12

 

"Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12  And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery."

 

The Second View

Other Christians say that the Matthean exception must be read as a real exception and that its plain sense is to refer to both divorce and remarriage. They point out that the principal Old Testament passage about divorce, Deuteronomy 21.1-4 assumes remarriage after divorce and only condemns it in one limited context:

 

If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house,2  and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, 3  and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, or if he dies, then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again after she has been defiled. That would be detestable in the eyes of the LORD.

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This group also believes that marriage is not indissoluble. They appeal to Jesus words in Mark 10.9 which imply that the marriage bond can in fact be broken: (they imply that the marriage bond can be broken even though it shouldn’t be)

 

Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

 

So we have two views:

 

1.          Remarriage is never right

2.          Remarriage is sometimes right

 

Individual believers have to agree to differ on this important issue. Some will be unable to accept remarriage in any circumstances. Others will be able to accept in some circumstances and not others. A third group whilst accepting the principle of remarriage, will not accept a remarriage in church.

 

 

 

What should our attitude be to the phenomenon of divorce?

 

1.          Compassion and acceptance for those who have been divorced or are experiencing marriage difficulties

 

2.          A sober realization of how seriously God views divorce and of the harm that divorce causes society

 

3.          A concern to strengthen marriages (including our own) within the church and society at large.

 

 

 

 

Worship and the Future of Worship (a spectrum talk)

 


1. What is worship?

At one level this is something every Christian knows the answer to. Worship is what we do in church. It is an activity involving praise, thanksgiving, prayer, the word of God and the sacraments. We talk about an ‘act of worship’ or a service of ‘worship.’

 

But are we using the right terminology? What actually is worship, biblically speaking?

 

The meaning of the word ‘worship’ : the English word means ‘worthship’ – ie giving someone special honour in accordance with their word. The main Biblical terms for worship emphasise bowing down, paying homage and expressing submission and obedience.

 

Worship in the Old Testament

The heart of Old Testament worship was the offering of sacrifices to God. To do this you needed:

·         the Temple, the holy place where God’s presence dwelt and the placed appointed by God to offer him sacrifices

·         an altar, the place on which to offer the sacrifice

·         a priest, the person appointed by God to offer the sacrifice and to be the mediator or go-between between God and man

·         the sacrifice – something to sacrifice, usually an animal of some kind

 

 

Moving to the New Testament we find everything has changed:

 

Worship in the New Testament

There is no temple, no priesthood, no altar, and nothing to sacrifice. Christians have no need of special buildings (temples), special people (priests), or places on which to offer sacrifices (altars), because the Old sacrificial system is now obsolete because Christ has fulfilled it and completed it and thereby, made it redundant.

 

In fact, Jesus himself is the temple, altar, sacrifice, and priest of the Christian faith as the following verses indicate

 

 

Sacrifice:         Jesus            Hebrews 9.24-28; 10.10

Altar:              Jesus            Hebrews 13.9-10

Temple:          Jesus            John 2.19-22

Priest            Priest              Jesus            Hebrews 4.14, 5.10;

7.23-28; 10.11-12

 

 

Instead, wherever Christians meet, there Christ is by his Spirit. Christian ministers are presbyters (elders) not priests and their task is to pastor and to teach not offer sacrifices.

 

Christian Worship 

Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God--this is your spiritual act of worship. (Romans 12. 1)

 

This key verse which comes after Paul’s panoramic eleven-chapter account of the Gospel, indicates that true Christian Worship is:

 

 

·         A whole life response it is not just about what we say or sing in church or meetings. It is about a whole life lived as a sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving. Notice at  exit from church building ‘You are about to enter a place of worship’

 

So, What about what goes on in Church? Should we call it worship at all?

 

Worship is much more than what goes in a ‘service of worship.’ Even in the Old Testament acts of worship that did not flow from lives consecrated to God were not acceptable him – see Isaiah 1. Romans 12, makes it clear that worship is about an offering to God of the whole of your life, nonetheless  what goes on in church should and can be part of that. What goes on in church, then, is an aspect of worship but not the whole of worship.

 

2. Who is worship for?

Our worship is for God and God alone.

 

Our meetings and services of worship however also have a horizontal dimension and are not ‘only for God.’ They are also for the for teaching, encouragement and edification of Christians.

 

In Ephesians Paul in speaking of the gathering of Christians to sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs speaks of both a horizontal and vertical dimension to their meetings, exhorting them to sing or speak both to the Lord and to one another.

 

19          Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, 20  always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ Ephesians 5.19-20

 

 

There are to edify and build up one another even as they sing to the Lord. Church meetings and services are as much about fellowship as they are about worship. The earliest account of the meetings of the first Christians describes them like this:

 

They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.

-               Acts 2.42

 

3. What is the point of liturgical worship?

·         It allows everyone to join in

·         It frees us from dependence on the temperament or experience of the leader

·         It can offer a doctrinally and biblically sound basis for worship

·         You know in advance whether you can say ‘Amen’ to it

·         It allows you to memorise the words so that they become part of you

 

 

4. Where is worship going?

 

·         Alternative forms of worship (youth, Celtic, dance culture etc)

·         Charismatic worship

·         Multi-congregational churches/ Niche congregations

·         Cell churches

·         Family worship at home

·         Common Worship

 

 

5. Some Questions

 

  1. A lot of current thinking about worship uses Old Testament categories of thought. How legitimate is this for Christians?

 

  1. What should the emotional content of worship be? What should the role for the head and the heart in worship be?

 

  1. How do we balance the fact that worship services are clearly for God but also for the benefit of the congregation?

 

  1. Is there a danger of us adopting a consumerist approach to worship?

 

  1. How do we do justice to the Biblical concept of worship as do with the whole of our lives?

 

 

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Communion: the Meal that Unites

 

1. What is Communion?

a.          A meal  (Matthew 26.17-30)

b.          A meal commanded by Christ  (1 Cor 11.23-26)

c.           A meal in remembrance of Christ (1 Cor 11.23-26)

d.          A proclamation of Christ’s death (1 Cor 11.26)

 

 

2. What happens during communion?

 

a.     The Church of Rome’s view: the bread changes into the body of Christ (transubstantiation)

 

b.     Luther’s view: the bread contains the body of Christ materially present (consubstatiation)

 

c.      Zwingli’s view: the bread represents the body of Christ symbolically

 

d.     Calvin’s view: the believer when he eats with faith truly partakes of Christ who is present spiritually, not materially.

 

Calvin’s view is essentially that enshrined in the Articles of the Church of England  (see below) .The essence of this view is that it is receptionist. It involves no physical change in the bread and wine and depends on the faith of the recipient. When there is true faith there is a true feeding upon Christ. The invitation to communion brings this out:

 

Draw near with faith

receive the body of our Lord Jesus Christ which he gave for you

and his blood which he shed for you

eat and drink in remembrance that he died for you

and feed on him in your hearts

by faith with thanksgiving.

What, then, is the benefit of receiving communion?

What does it mean to feed upon Christ spiritually? What does God do during Holy Communion? If we understand communion as a sign, as powerful message from God to us (it is important incidentally to understand that communion, like baptism, operates in that direction: from heaven to earth and not the other way round), what is communion’s essential message?

 

It speaks to us of Christ’s death and what he has achieved for us on the cross and it acts as a word of comfort, reassurance, promise, and love from God. The 1662 communion service speaks of the bread and wine as ‘pledges of his love’ and in the prayer of thanksgiving after communion says that as we ‘receive the spiritual food of the most precious Body and Blood’ of Christ, so God:

 

‘dost assure us thereby of (his) favour and goodness towards us; and that we are very members incorporate in the mystical body of (his) Son…and also heirs through hope of (his) everlasting kingdom, by the merits and passion of (his) dear Son…’

 

In other words God assures us that he loves, that we belong to him, and that we shall be with him forever.

 

 

3. Who should receive communion?

If the receptionist view is correct then any one who has faith should be able to receive communion. In the New Testament all believers were baptized and so we could say any baptized believer should be able to receive communion. This raises two further questions:

 

What about confirmation?

Confirmation is often seen as the gateway to communion in the Church of England but (1) strictly speaking you don’t have to be confirmed, only ‘desirous of confirmation’ or a communicant member of another church; (2) confirmation has not always been widely practiced in the past for logistical reasons (3) it is baptism not confirmation in biblical terms that is the real gateway to communion because this is the means by which a person comes to Christ and joins his family

 

Confirmation might be better seen as the rite of adult commitment to Christ and less as a qualifier for communion.

 

What about children?

Here are some questions to think about:

·         Should children be admitted to communion before confirmation after suitable preparation (as is now permissible from age 7)?

·         Or should the children of Christian parents receive communion from infancy?

·         What justification is there for giving baptism to infants but not communion?

·         Is there any evidence in scripture of a baptized people who cannot receive communion?

·         Should Christian children be admitted to the communion meal in the way Jewish children were admitted to the Passover meal? Or does communion require a level of understanding of which infants are not capable? In which case what about adults who are not capable of this degree of understanding eg those with severe learning difficulties?

 

 

4. How can I make the most of communion?

·         Come prepared

·         Come believing

·         Come expectant

 

 

THE VIEW FROM THE 39 ARTICLES

 

THE Supper of the Lord is not only a sign of the love that Christians ought to have among themselves, one to another, but rather it is a sacrament of our redemption by Christ's death: insomuch that to such as rightly, worthily, and with faith receive the same, the bread which we break is a partaking of the body of Christ, and likewise the cup of blessing is a partaking of the blood of Christ.


Transubstantiation (or the change of the substance of bread and wine) in the Supper of the Lord, cannot be proved by Holy Writ, but is repugnant to the plain words of Scripture, overthroweth the nature of a Sacrament, and hath given occasion to many superstitions.


The body of Christ is given, taken, and eaten in the Supper, only after an heavenly and spiritual manner. And the mean whereby the body of Christ is received and eaten in the Supper is Faith.


The Sacrament of the Lord's Supper was not by Christ's ordinance reserved, carried about, lifted up, or worshipped. (Article 28)

 

THE wicked and such as be void of a lively faith, although they do carnally and visibly press with their teeth (as S. Augustine saith) the sacrament of the body and blood of Christ, yet in no wise are they partakers of Christ, but rather to their condemnation do eat and drink the sign or sacrament of so great a thing. (Article 29)

 

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Baptism: the Water that Divides  (a spectrum talk)

1. What is baptism?

a.     Baptism is a sign

b.     Baptism is a sign from God to us

c.      It is a sign of :           

¨    new birth  (Galatians 3.26-27, Colossians.2.11-13)

¨    being joined to Christ in his death & resurrection (Romans 6.3-5, Colossians 2.11-13))

¨    being part of Christ’s body (1 Cor 12.13)

¨    being washed or cleansed from sin (Acts 22.16)

 

d.     Baptism is an effectual sign

e.     Baptism does not work automatically

f.      Baptism is not just a symbol or badge

 

 

2. Who should be baptized and when?

 

a.     In the New Testament people were baptized at the very beginning of their Christian lives, without preparation, discipleship courses, or time to prove themselves (Acts 2.41; 8.36-38; 9.18;16.14-15: 16.31-33)

 

b.     People were baptized in a response to hearing the Gospel (Acts 2.41; 8.36-38; 16.14-15: 16.31-33)

 

c.      Baptism was commanded by Christ (Matthew 28.16-20)

 

 

d.          Were Children baptized?

The baptism of children is never directly mentioned in the Bible, but

¨    Jewish children received the signs of the Old Covenant: circumcision & Passover